The first step in achieving your goals is to identify what it is that you want. This is done by writing down the things that you want and putting them in a list. Try to write down all the words that describe the following:
Why you want it. What is the benefit of having it? What is the overall cost? Where does it fit into your life?
What other people say about you. What are the things that others say about you? Is this good or bad?
What is your personal life like? What do you do for fun? What would it take to get you into a situation that allows you to reach your goals?
Who else knows what you do? When do you think you will be able to meet them?
What are your day jobs? Do you have any hobbies?
What do you have planned for the next few months? Will you be able to make it happen?